Saturday, December 13, 2014

A Donkey Christmas...

We knew very little about St. John the first time we visited.  Just another beautiful island created by God with a great resort created by Rockefeller for us to enjoy some snorkeling and sun while we waited to reunite with our son after his summer sailing experience.

Our first morning there we walked the lush green grounds of the resort following a path lined by flamboyant foliage and swaying palm trees through an expansive clearing which gently sloped up to the edge of the rainforest.  The air was fresh and lightly salted.  The breeze cooled our sweaty skin on this humid tropical summer day.  It was early and we were alone.  Stirring at the forest edge, a commotion of animals headed this way, slowly at first but picking up speed. A large herd of donkeys had decided at that moment the grass WAS greener on the other side and they were headed for it.  Donkeys?  It seemed silly at first.  But we stood transfixed, directly in the path of this asinine stampede as the dashing donkeys now at a full gallop gained speed and threatened to engulf us at any second.  


Like Walmart shoppers on Black Friday, the rambunctious group of jacks and jennets converged on us too quickly.  Our survival reflexes kicked in and, as juvenile as it may seem, our only way out was to dart awkwardly behind the safety of a large palm tree.  There we stood as skinny as possible behind its protective trunk with donkeys speeding by us to either side.  Donkeys to the left and donkeys to the right, their unassuming gray and white coats shining in the sweltering sun, some snorting and others just kicking up a little dust but all thump thump thumping with their hooves on the soft turf.  And passing by us to the grassy field beyond, as quickly as they had started, they stopped. 

Today they came from the protection of the National Park territory to eat breakfast, but generations ago, they came from a land much farther away.  Donkeys don’t swim.  This is an island.  They got here by boat.  Over five hundred years ago.  By Christopher Columbus’ ship, on his second voyage to the New World in 1495, the first donkeys landed in the Caribbean.  With weathered stays rigged to a creaky mast each of the four jacks and two jennets were harnessed and lowered to this sandy soil.  Back then, a donkey was respectfully called an "ass"; far from silly or stupid, they were important companions and beasts of burden.

They were brought to work.  To carry loads and people as they went about the business of settling this new frontier and building St. John.  Since way before the days when Jesus rode one into Jerusalem, donkeys have been excellent workers.  They eat less and live longer than horses, and take up less space.  On St. John they were excellent rum makers. They hauled bay leaves from the mountaintops and sugarcane from the fields.  They turned mills to grind the cane to sweeten the rum.  They transported the coveted concoction to the docks to ship to the world’s markets an export that is to this day the region’s number one commodity. 

And they were attentive witnesses.  If they could talk they would enlighten you on the historic battles for the island, and detail for you the raucous behavior of rebellious pirates as well as the ugliness of slavery from its beginning to its end.  They would tearfully describe the horrible hurricanes and earthquakes, and the 35 foot tsunami of November 18, 1867, and gratefully explain how Laurence Rockefeller arrived to create a National Park haven for them and others over fifty years ago.



Relaxing in a two-person hammock on a Christmas visit years later, we noticed some of the wild herd again in the shade at the edge of an alabaster beach.  One of the males, the leader, broke away from the group and made his way slowly and deliberately toward us.  He approached me, closer and closer until his nose was beside my cheek.  His whiskers tickled my skin.  I froze.  I did not even breathe.  He sniffed my shoulder, then down my side to my thigh and back to my face.  Then stepping forward, he positioned himself directly between me and my island girl.  And there he stood, for what reason I don’t know.  Posing. 

Twenty-one donkey generations after Columbus, we rested under the shade of a welcoming palm tree, and enviously watched their wild donkey descendants, with no predators to worry about and no more work to do, peacefully retired and munching happily and deservedly on the dewy sweet green grass of paradise.  And we were filled with the spirit of Christmas, the peace and goodwill toward man symbolized in the harmony of that moment, thankful for this gift from our donkey friend and happy to share this gift with you.

Merry Christm"ass" To All!!


    **a friendly beachcomber with a camera walking by at just the right time snapped this shot for us.

Wednesday, December 10, 2014

Our Island Wedding...



Instead of writing today, I watched.    Please enjoy my daughter and her new husband's wedding video by clicking the word "wedding" in this link...

Thank you Nazareth Road Productions, US Virgin Islands, for making this day even more special with your creativity.

Sunday, December 7, 2014

It's Four O'Clock Somewhere...

Each day my staff and I set aside our four o’clock appointment for a person in need of eye care who does not have insurance and cannot afford to pay.  Eligibility for this is determined by a local free clinic and those patients are then referred to us.  Our surgery center donates the time, the operating room, and the anesthesiology staff.  We donate the care.

Many of these new patients are foreign nationals who have immigrated to America to be with their families and to find a better life. Because we have been doing this for years, we have accumulated a significant group of international patients.  Too many to list, they come to us from five of the seven continents and represent many of Earth’s 193 countries.




We look forward to what our four o’clock patient may reveal to us about the world, and many do not disappoint.  Liberians and Congolese arrive proudly wearing their traditional, brightly colored African kaftans and boubous and kufis.  Japanese display less flamboyant attire but rise and bow ceremoniously each time we enter and leave the exam room.  Appreciative South and Central Americans greet us with grateful, toothy smiles while Europeans communicate more with gesticulations and body language, but they always convey the same hopeful and obvious message:  If they could only see better, they could do better.

Because most speak little or no English, and we cannot possibly understand or speak the hundreds of languages and dialects they do speak, we require only that they bring a family member or friend who can translate well.  And what we hear them say is they are grateful to be living in one of the best countries in the world.  They feel free to pursue their dreams, happy to be in a place where they are protected equally in the eyes of the law to do so, and fortunate to have a support system to help them create a better life.  They are proud to be in America.  They are proud to be American.

I arrived at the surgery center on this day feeling especially thankful for my American heritage and proud of the position our country plays in this cumbersome world game, because we have been in the news a lot lately, solving humanity’s problems.  Ebola virus spreading through your country?  We have our own domestic health care problems, but sure thing, we’ll be right over with more medical and Marine support than you can ever imagine.  Tired of seeing the environmental deterioration?  Our air is now cleaner than ever, and our President will get the Chinese to agree to controls that will keep our coral reefs and polar caps safe and healthy.  Got some ISIS varmits in your Middle Eastern backyard?  Count on Mother Liberty to send you a military crew to help you exterminate your pest problem.  Want to go to Mars?  Maybe you can hitch a ride with the good ol’ USA on Spaceship Orion, which blasted off recently, and we can get you there like when we went to the Moon fifty years ago.  Being attacked by Communists or harassed by Socialists? Last year we spent $37.6 Billion in foreign aid, much, much more than any other country and much more on a military trained to defend those countries and protect humankind from savagery; I am sure Uncle Sam has something for you.

In the preoperative holding area were my patients, lining up as usual for a chance to see better, but today the activity was more frenetic than usual.  The privacy curtains for each patient cubicle were bulging, each crammed full with a patient, some family members and an interpreter.  Behind curtain number one were the Japanese, their questions being answered by a compassionate nurse.  Curtain number two shielded the Congolese family, chattering and interpreting to our tolerant and kind anesthesiologist.  Curtain three sheltered the Argentinians, comforted by a concerned staff.  The discord was disorienting.  Fifteen patients today and so far, it was International Day at Charlotte Surgery Center.  As Walt Disney liked to say, ‘It’s A Small World’.

In the operating room, my staff was waiting, our first patient prepped and draped, my familiar anesthesiologist and circulating nurse team ready and able.  But my surgical assistant was a new face.

“Hi, Doctor. I will be assisting you today.”

“Good.” I replied brusquely. “We are busier than usual.  Lots of needy people from other countries are counting on us.  I hope you’re up to it.  We are their only hope.”

“I’m sorry,” my Southern etiquette taking over, and I asked, “What is your name?”

Her strength and confidence shined through her surgical gown.  Her red hair hidden by a surgical cap and her nose and mouth protected by a white surgical mask, only her kind blue eyes were visible and, like stars, they twinkled as they met mine.

"My name is 'America'."**

** Her name really was America.